We all want to be happy, But how many of us really are?

The answer is Not Many!

This is pretty astonishing that everyone of us wants to be happy, But fails to be happy.

Now everyone will be wondering How To Be Happy? or How To Be Happy In Life?

Today we are going to see just that!

By the end of this session I can assure you that your perception of happiness will totally change.

Let me start with a small story so that you can understand it clearly.

Let’s Dive in.

How to be happy

How To Be Happy In Life:

A lady who was over 90 years old but had a great flair towards dressing up well, applying makeup and arranging her hair in beautiful patterns.

She and her husband had been married to each other for 70 years.

But, Unfortunately he left his last breath.

After the departure of her beloved partner, having no children and no one in the family to care for her.

She decided to move to a oldage home.

Even in the last moment when she vacated her home forever to move to nursing home.

She dressed up elegantly and looked gorgeous.

After arriving at the nursing home she had to wait patiently in the waiting room for hours before her room was ready.

When an attendant helped her make her way to the room, She gave the lady a visual description of the tiny space that she was meant to occupy.

“I LOVE IT!” the lady expressed with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old who had just been presented with a new puppy.

“Mrs. Jones you haven’t even seen the room yet just wait.” the attendant remarked.

“Well my joy has nothing to do with the room.” the lady replied.

“Whether I like my room or not, it doesn’t depend on how the furniture is arranged,it depends on how I arrange my mind” lady added.

Happiness is something you can decide.

I’ve already decided to love my room, to love the people around me, to love my life.

It is a decision that I make every morning when I wake up.

You know what the greatest asset we all have is the choice to choose how we feel.

The lady continued speaking as the attendant listened attentively with her mouth wide.

I can spend my entire day in bed thinking of the pain I am in, focusing on those parts of my body that no longer work.


I can get out of bed and be thankful for those parts that do work.

I have to love myself no matter what to be happy all the time!

Each day is a gift and as long as my eyes can still open I will continue to focus on today and all the happy memories that have stored in my mind just for this time in my life.

The attendant was astounded by the positive attitude of the elderly lady whose life from an external point of view is only full of problems and hopelessness.


Ladies and gentlemen, only problems happen automatically.

“HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE” we all have to make!

Only anger happens automatically peace is a choice we all have to make.

Only hatred happens automatically love is a choice we all have to make.

Being negative happens automatically a positive attitude is a choice we all have to make.

Complaining is automatic, Gratitude is a choice we all have to make.

We are the one’s who have to choose whether we should be happy or sad.

We have to be grateful for every small thing you have in your life and Choose to be happy.

Choose right and Live well

Peace ✌️.

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