Learning to love yourself more is one of the most powerful things you can do in regards to self learning.

It can fix things like low self-esteem, a strong need for validation from others, and also increase your levels of confidence.

So today I’m going to show you exactly how to love yourself more.

Story Time:

I want you to think about someone that you really like.It can be a celebrity, a family member, a friend, or even a fictional character.

For the purposes of this blog post I’m just going to use a celebrity that almost everyone likes as an example.

I’m going to use Keanu Reeves.The guy from the Matrix and John Wick.

Keanu Reeves

Now what’s so special about Keanu other than the fact that he doesn’t seem to age? Why do people love him so much?

Well there’s a couple of reasons – but personally, what I like the most about him is the fact that there’s always some story of him going out of his way to help others out.

And what’s so special about this is the fact that you never hear these stories from his mouth.

It’s always some stranger on the internet who happened to be there, witnessing the good deed, that’s telling you this story.

Which means that Keanu Reeves goes around doing good things all of the time without ever bragging about it.

He doesn’t do it for validation from other people.

He doesn’t do it for points on the internet

or for the attention.

He does it because he genuinely likes being a good person.

Good Deeds Of Keanu:

For example, just a couple of months ago, Keanu was on a public plane. And for some reason, the plane had to do an emergency landing.

Which you can only imagine must be pretty scary.

Most of the people on that plane probably thought that they were going to die at one point or another.

Luckily for everyone the plane managed to land safely. No one was injured but they landed about 100 miles away from their intended destination.

So right after they landed, instead of just calling a private taxi and going his own way, like most celebrities would. Keanu decides to charter a van.

He filled it with as many people from the plane as possible.

He paid for the entire ride and has the van drive everyone for two hours to their intended destination.

And for the entire ride he’s looking up fun facts about the place they landed in. He’s playing country music on his phone so that people feel more at ease.

Because, these people just experienced an emergency landing on a plane, so you can only imagine how stressed out and traumatized some of them were.

And this is just one example, there are tons of stories of him hanging out with homeless people, giving up his seat on the subway – and just being an all around good guy.

But you never hear any of these stories from him, you always hear it from someone else.

Lesson To Be Learned:

Now You may think why am I bragging good so hard over Keanu Reeves.

What does any of this have to do with learning to love yourself more.

Well if you think about it.

The reason I like Keanu Reeves is not because he’s a celebrity or because I love the Matrix Series.

I like Keanu because of this specific trait that he has, which again is doing good deeds without bragging about it.

And this is where the secret to learning how to love yourself lies.

All I would have to do is take this trait and add it to my character and just like that I would start loving myself more.

If I started doing good deeds and never bragged about it, I would start loving myself more.

Because if you start incorporating the favorite traits of people that you admire and love and add them to your self.

Guess what…you’ll start loving yourself more and more.

See, the reason we don’t love ourselves is because we have traits that we don’t like.

Maybe you think that you’re lazy, maybe you think you’re socially awkward, maybe you think you’re not someone that others can admire.

If you’re like me and you don’t like these traits in other people.But you have them in yourself.

Then ofcourse, you’re not going to love yourself.

Because you have so many traits about yourself that you dislike.

All you need to do is fix this ratio.


Decrease the amount of traits that you dislike and increase the amount of traits that you like.

If you look up to someone because of their bravery.

Then all you have to do is start doing what you consider to be brave things like taking risks, speaking up for yourself, or standing up for others.

And you’ll start loving yourself more.

If you look up to someone because of how hardworking they are.

Then all you have to do is start doing what you consider to be hard work like building habits, making progress in your projects, or hitting the gym and you’ll start loving yourself even more.

If you look up to someone because they’re a social butterfly.

Then all you have to do is start talking to more people or try to have deeper conversations and you will start loving yourself more.

The more you start incorporating the traits of people you look up to and like, you will start loving yourself more.

It’s that simple!

Now, if you’re wondering what’s the best way to finding good traits to incorporate into your own life?

The answer is by reading biographies of Some of the greatest people or by listening to the stories of some of the most successful people in the world and adopting their traits.

The More you incorporate the good habits of the people you admire the more you Love Yourself :-).


Loving yourself is the most important trait you need to incorporate in yourself to boost up your self esteem,build up your confidence, Be Cheerful all the time and a lot more.

So the next time you see a celebrity or a friend that you admire, ask yourself this.

what is it about them that I like so much? how can I add that trait to my own life so that I can learn to love myself more?

And when you find out the answer to the above question, try to incorporate that trait to yourself.

And in no time you will start to love yourself more and more :-).

With that being said this is the most effective way to fall in love with the most wonderful person you’ll ever meet(And that’s you 😉 ).

Hope you all fall in love with yourself.

And This is it for this Blog Post.

With that being said, See you all in the next Blog Post.



Muni Chandra Is The Founder of LifeOfAlpha. He is a Aspiring Entrepreneur, Digital Marketer and Content Creator. MC's Mission is to Inspire And Change Lives Of Millions of People World Wide. His Main Motto in life is "Never Give Up."

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